How to Find Sex on Craigslist

Get Sex on Craigslist

If you stumbled across this page, chances are you’re looking to find a sexual partner and probably looking to find a sexual partner on craigslist.  Everyone knows you can get sex on sites like, but below we have outlined how to actually find a sexual relationship on craigslist and avoid the pitfalls, misconceptions and scammers that go with the casual encounters craigslist page.

As an experienced craigslist sexual veteran I will walk you through the steps of how to find a real sexual experience on craigslist.

We have all heard the stories, a friend of a friend who found a hot woman on craigslist and had a romantic casual sexual experience with her.  Then there are the stories of undercover police posing as prostitutes to lure men in and arrest them.

So how do you navigate craigslist effectively to really find sex?  What do all the code words mean? What sections have real girls looking for sex?  How do you avoid getting in trouble with a prostitute on craigslist? How do you proposition woman, what do you say?  We have done the research, tested the waters and answered all your questions.

Where to Start?

Step 1 of finding sex on craigslist is going to be going straight for the personals section. You will find other bloggers and people who have “tested” craigslist for finding sex.  The problem that all these other posters make is they all put an ad on craigslist hoping to find sex.  To really find sex on craigslist you need to know how to browse craigslist and find the right ads. You need to know the craigslist language and what to look for.   If you follow my instructions you can find a sexual partner on craigslist.

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For first time users the personals section can be a bit intimidating.  There is the strictly platonic section, the women seeking woman, the woman seeking men, men seeking women, men seeking men, misc romance, casual encounters, missed connections and rants and raves. I won’t break down all of these sections as some of them are pretty self-explanatory, i.e. women seeking men, is a section for women seeking men, enough said. We will break down what happens inside these sections shortly. The strictly platonic section is typically the first section listed in the personals category.
The Strictly Platonic Section

Contrary to the name “Strictly Platonic” this can be one of the better sections on Craigslist to find sex in.  This is not the best section for finding A sex, but don’t pass it over as it does maintain possibilities.   In this section you will find the most “legitimate” woman.  Meaning you have a lower number of scammers and prostitutes posting in this section. Some of the women posting in this section are more reserved and looking to take things slower.   If you are looking for a one night stand, you can find it in the strictly platonic section, but you will have to do some digging.  Many people are not aware of the valuable –search- tool.  Using the search function you can narrow down the listings to people looking for more romantic relationships.  By simply placing the word, “romantic” in the search box you can quickly pull up all the listings with this text in it.   Instead of browsing through countless listings looking for sexual partners use the search feature to narrow down the listings.

Another must use tool in all the sections is the, “has image” feature.  This will allow you to filter out posts that have images.  Many people believe that there might be some benefit finding posters who don’t add pictures or that attractive woman wouldn’t put a picture up.  The truth is, there are tons of women posting on craigslist daily, there is no reason to sort through posts that don’t have pictures and waste your time on the off chance that you might find an attractive woman.  Go with the sure thing and use the “has image” search feature to find the attractive woman.

listings with images

Go through and copy and paste 50 emails of the most interesting looking profiles you find.  Past these emails into a word document so you can use them later (we will explain shortly).

The Misc Romance Section

This section can be one of the best sections to find sex in.  I only say it can be, because it is really hit or miss. You will either find a lot of great posts or you might find only one post.  A lot of this depends on what city you live in.  No matter what, this section is always worth looking at and exploring.  Below is a breakdown of the language you will see when you first enter the section.

W4M = Woman looking for men.

M4M = Men looking for men.

M4w  = Men looking for Woman

W4w = Woman looking for Woman

T4m  = Transgender looking for men

M4t = Men looking for transgender

If you are looking to find sex with a girl on craigslist you want to be looking in the W4M, this is woman looking for men.

The misc. romance section is a great section for finding potential sex partners.  People posting in this section are looking for exactly as the section describes.  Go through your sorted list of interesting woman and pull out the email address.  Copy and paste them into a word document.  We will expand on this shortly.

The Woman Seeking Men Section

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The jackpot section at least that is what most people think!  This section is actually filled with the most scammers and prostitutes that you should avoid.  If you are looking to find prostitution on craigslist, we strongly advise against that.  There are countless cases of men and woman being arrested from craigslist sting operations.  Prostitution is illegal and should be avoided.  There is no need to pay for sex, when you can find genuine free sex right on craigslist.

Craigslist has beefed up their antispam program in the last few years, so there is much less spam and fake posts then there used to be, but you still need to watch out.  If it sounds too good to be true it probably is.  Same goes for if it looks too good to be true, well then it probably is.  Don’t ever send anyone gifts, money, or personal sensitive information without first meeting them.

Although this section contains the greatest number of scammers and prostitutes it also has the largest number of legitimate woman looking for sex.  Again, don’t mess with the posts that don’t have pictures.  Use the “Has image” search feature and pull up all the profiles of woman with pictures.  Now you start browsing through the profiles that interest you, grab the emails and save them into the same word document you have been working from.

Now How too Actually Find a Sexual Partner!

Step 1: Getting the bait

Once inside this section you will again want to use the “has image” search feature to narrow down the posts to woman have included some sort of photo.  Now here is the key to making this work.  Just like anything, this is a numbers game. Most people get caught up in reading the posts people write and trying to write individual messages to each person.  This is a time consuming process and will not produce results.  Instead, create one custom message that fits your personality.  Something witty and simple, don’t make it longer than two sentences and ask a question to generate a response. The key here is to keep it short and to the point.  Something like the below works well.

“Great profile and picture, we should meet up for a drink, what do you think?”

This is straight and to the point and asks a question to generate a response.  Believe it or not some of these girls are getting 100’s of emails.  They don’t want to read a paragraph about your grandma or why you are the perfect fit.  Give them something simple and easy for the first email.  You can expand on the second and third email. If you are searching for ideas on great intro emails for meeting woman you can find some on the Internet.  Just make sure not to put too much information in this intro email.  This is one of the biggest mistakes people make.

Step 2:  Craigslist Fishing

The more casts you make the more fish you will catch.  You take the above method and copy this message and start sending it off to every girl you is interested in on craigslist.  You should send roughly 30-50 emails, more if better.  It should only take you roughly 20 to 30 minutes to send 50 emails, you are using the copy and paste technique to send as many messages as possible.  If you are looking to make this work and looking for sex you need to make as many contacts as possible.  From 50 emails sent you should get 10-15 responses.  Many of the girls will ask for a picture or for more information.  This is good!  The key is to get them to interact with you, any response is a good response.

So at this point you have sent out 50 emails and have 10 to 15 responses. Begin to interact with this 10 girls.

Step 3: The Before Sex Meeting

Narrow them down to 5 to 7 that really interest you.  Request more pictures from them and be ready to send them pictures of yourself.  At this point you will want to set up a first date or meeting. I always recommend a happy hour for this, it allows for a few drinks to soften the mood and is early enough to not intimidate anyone, but late enough that things can still get interesting.

Set up 5 happy hour dates, I like to line them all up Monday through Friday, this way I am on a roll and don’t get too caught up or worried about any particular date.

On your dates be confident and secure, have a plan for after the happy hour, this is very important, don’t just show up to happy hour with no after plans.  Happy hour leads to dinner, which leads to a hotel or back to your house for sex.

Step 4: Close the deal

You have come this far.  It’s now time to close the deal, take the girl back to your house or a nice hotel (rather sleezy if you ask me), your house is always the best option.  Close the deal.  You just had sex with a girl from craigslist.  Yes it is that easy!

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